Steve McNair and Sahel Kazemi

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• 91. It disgusts me to read some of these comments. He didn't get what he deserved. If every cheating spouse was killed by their lover, we'd have a lot of widows and fatherless kids. This woman is a coward and murderer. What Steve did was wrong, but Nashville and Mississippi will never be the same. Steve did an insane amount of good around here. He gave a ton of time and money to help poor kids and families. Some of you should be ashamed for the words you put on here.

  Posted at 12:22AM on 10th 2009 by nashfan

• 92. Mcnair cheated on his wife nearly the entire time he was married. This is not something new to those who work in pro sports. He was known as a player and player. Like many more just like him. The folly is to make promises to a 20 year old when you have a wife and 4 children at home you know you have no intention of leaving. The foolish thing in all this was that a young woman would believe that a man who doesn't divorce his wife readily to be with her wholly is immaturity at best. She was simply something to do outside his marriage and unfortunate as it is, he strung this one along a bit to far and made promises he simply had no intention to keep. Even a 20 y.o. will tire of the excuses, eventually and she was inexperienced enough to seek revenge instead of evening the score. McNair paid the ultimate price to play a dangerous game of hearts.

  Posted at 12:07AM on 10th 2009 by AZMD

• 93. To the woman who feels that we should learn to live, not live to learn: You need help. I don't understand how women like you think. I don't want a "feeling of love", I want to be loved, and I will not settle for less. My husband also cheated on me. I couldn't imagine anything hurting that much. I felt like I was going to die from the pain. I cried for days. His affair destroyed our family. Even though he broke it off when I found out, our marriage was over. I couldn't trust him again, nor did I want him to touch me. He felt dirty to me. We are now divorced. When you justify your behavior, try and take a moment to think about the other people involved in this matter. It's not just the two of you. I pray for Mr. McNair's family. They did nothing to earn this. I don't think he deserved to die, but if he had been a real man, loving father and faithful husband, he would still be around. He was not where he was supposed to be.

  Posted at 11:56PM on 9th 2009 by Candy

• 94. Steve, you paid the ultimate price and you didnt deserve it. Governors Sanford, Spitzer, and the Governor of Neveda shelled out thousands of dollars for their lovers or mistresses. Yet, steve-you seemed to assist this beast in her life and she paid you back by taking your life. Life is unfair and you didnt deserve to die over you infidelity. Wrong time, wrong woman (freakin animal), wrong race, wrong location. RIP steve

  Posted at 11:19PM on 9th 2009 by sir topham hat

• 95. STEVE, your on a permanent vacation now, unfortunate SAHELL is in a warmer location than you... She new he wasn't getting a divorce if his wife and kids were frequent at Dave and Buster where she worked. DAVE and Busters is for BUSTERS. Now they are know for Dead Busters and Ghost Busters.

  Posted at 11:08PM on 9th 2009 by Married

• 96. Also Steve, just paid part of the debt to the society of the cheating husbands convention. Because it discusses me to hear the word Steve and his girlfriend........... It was Steve and his piece of ASS

  Posted at 11:03PM on 9th 2009 by Married

• 97. Stop calling her "white." She was a stupid, terrorist whore.

  Posted at 11:03PM on 9th 2009 by G Aguirre

• 98. To Poster #6 Are you RETARDED????? Why in the HELL WOULD YOU SETTLE FOR BEING #2? First of all you are playing a stupid game of Slave Girl of the future. Or is it that you simply don't think you deserve your own man. Check this out, My husband cheated on me with a female just like you, and guess what she said the same words you said, that she doesn't expect him to leave his wife, guess what there is a REASON SHE IS THE WIFE AND YOU ARE THE ASS. Because one his wife will always be his stable comfort zone, you are his fairytale. And we all know that men need a space where they don't have to be accountable.... So really all you are is ass and your acting like and ass for excepting that !#$@?

  Posted at 10:59PM on 9th 2009 by Married

• 99. So his wife knew about her? Really? He didn't deserve to be murdered, but what a douche.

  Posted at 10:47PM on 9th 2009 by what?

• 100. Be respectful. I hate when people try to play God and become moral police. Under no circumstances does cheating equal death. None. Cheating is not a crime punishable by law. Ask Bill CLinton. Try to harm CLinton because he cheated on Hillary and watch the guys in black helicopters appear. CLinto wasn't even removed from the oval office. Further if he showed up at your job tomorrow all of you would be clamoring to shake his hand ... Yes McNair was silly with a solid family at home ... but please stop with the he deserved what he got mess. And why bring up race? People that bring up race are like kids looking for their favorite blanky ... this isn't race related.

  Posted at 10:15PM on 9th 2009 by Be Respectful

• 101. Learn to Accept Things. I am a black woman, dating a married white man for 2 years now, and I know where I stand, and I also will never assume that he will leave his wife and family. However, I do not expect him too. The difference between me and this young woman is that I am not greedy, has just as much as he does, and in it for the feeling of love. So, I believe this waitress had her eyes on the gold, but failed to realized love is first, lust is last, and buying you nice things is just all part of the game. They always go back just enjoy it while you can, dont look for pure love, because it's just simple loving you, but not wanting you. They need their wives or husband, but only want you - GO FIGURE. Men women get a background check, blood test, all those things before you flirt with disaster. I have sympathy for all in this situation. Life goes on with or without those you love or think loved you.

  Posted at 9:51PM on 9th 2009 by Learn to Live, not Live to Learn

• 102. You can see photos of Steve and his girl here too http://photossfilmss.blogspot.com/ , including photos from the scene. It's shocking to see... you just have to do a little survey then it takes you right to the pics!

  Posted at 9:48PM on 9th 2009 by Shawn

• 103. You can see photos of Steve and his girl here too http://photossfilmss.blogspot.com/ , including photos from the scene. It's shocking to see... you just have to do a little survey then it takes you right to the pics!

  Posted at 9:45PM on 9th 2009 by shawn

• 104. wow...amazing how maby of us worry bout the wrong things.... God help us ALL....

  Posted at 9:05PM on 9th 2009 by chi

• 105. I sympathesize with Mr. McNair's and Kazemi's family. I am not taking any sides but McNair was wrong for having an affair on his wife. If it is true that his marital relationship was not yet dissolved, then he should not have pursue a relationship with Kazemi. Secondly,Kazemi should not have gotten herself involved with a married man because my favorite book says that who God put together no man should put apart. Truthfully, whatever an individual sows, he/she reaps. It is sad that such tragedy happened but this should be a lesson learnt for future married men and women who wish to get involved with single men and women.

  Posted at 7:46PM on 9th 2009 by Linda Rolle